Just for completion, this is me in the dress I wore to the TORn Oscar party the next night.
ETA: I *made* that dress, btw. A 'friend' had told me that I could find what I was looking for at such-and-such a store. When I saw the selection, I laughed. I told her I was looking for something that would be a 3- to 4-hundred dollar dress. Those ones weren't worth $50. When she saw my dress, she just said, "Oh!"